I'm just a girl with too many things in her mind, and nowhere else to put it all.

24th July 2014

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Male privilege is “I have a boyfriend” being the only thing that can actually stop someone from hitting on you because they respect another man more than they respect your rejection/lack of interest.

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There was actually research that was done that found that women who used an “I have a boyfriend/husband” excuse to reject unwanted sexual attention and harassment by their bosses were more likely to be left alone than those who used any other excuse (including “I’m not interested”)

just a little additional note too:

this is why I hate those videos, vines, whatever of some random-ass dude approaching a girl on the street, asking her to go to his birthday party or be his friend, etc., and she immediately responds with “I have a boyfriend,” or “I’m married,” and the video is like, WOAH THAT ESCALATED QUICKLY GEEZ

and I’m thinking, no fucking shit.  you walked up to a girl on the street out of nowhere, and started asking her to  go with you to some place she doesn’t know, or start a relationship with her.automatically, her reaction in the kind of culture we live in (the kind where rape and harassment is commonplace) is to get away,  you are a stranger. you have entered her personal space, and however “innocent” your request is, it’s still at least a minor threat to her.

so yeah, she’s going to say she has a boyfriend, or that she’s married, or that she’s seeing someone.  she has learned, through numerous interactions with men who can’t take a hint, that this is the quickest way to get some douche off her back.  it’s not about her being stuck-up for assuming that you want to bone her by asking her to your birthday party.  it’s about you putting her in an extremely uncomfortable social situation, and her wanting to leave it.

and guess what? she has the right to do that. 

(via cynthiacloud)

It’s also very telling that “I have a girlfriend” doesn’t work.  That will just be like “oh does she want to share?” or “oh hot, we can have a threesome” or some gross stuff about converting us.  So, despite how guys try to justify this, it’s not about respecting somebody already being a relationship, it’s about respecting a woman as being seen as already property of another man. -_-  Like “oh, sorry dude, didn’t know you had dibs on that.”

Another thing is, guys may go “wow that escalated quickly” or “why does she assume I was interested?”  But then, if we DON’T cut to the chase, if we don’t go right to where WE ALL KNOW THEY’RE REALLY TALKING ABOUT ANYWAY, then it’s our fault for “leading him on”, or they we “friendzoned” him because he didn’t know we weren’t interested, or he didn’t know we were already dating, or etc. 

(via ami-angelwings)

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24th July 2014

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24th July 2014

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gtfobands:

Tomorrow Never Dies // 5 Seconds of Summer // x

full album here

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24th July 2014

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PATRONUS CHARM: This ancient and mysterious charm conjures a magical guardian, a projection of all your most positive feelings. The Patronus Charm is difficult, and many witches and wizards are unable to produce a full, corporeal Patronus, a guardian which generally takes the shape of the animal with whom they share the deepest affinity. You may suspect, but you will never truly know what form your Patronus will take until you succeed in conjuring it.

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24th July 2014

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makochantachibanana:

your follower count will determine the number of babies you’ll have with your icon

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24th July 2014

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zerostigma:

I just remembered how hilarious it was to watch this shit on national television.

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24th July 2014

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lunalovegouda:

Those people who constantly reblog your stuff but you never really talk:

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24th July 2014

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offbeatorbit:

jesus fucking christ

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emilianadarling:

#THE MOMENT I FELL IN LOVE WITH SAM WILSON TBH

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24th July 2014

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5sobrien:

on-a-scale-of-luke-to-emo:

sexycliffconda:

Never forget 

What the fuck did luke just do?

are we gonna ignore ashton

5sobrien:

on-a-scale-of-luke-to-emo:

sexycliffconda:

Never forget 

What the fuck did luke just do?

are we gonna ignore ashton

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24th July 2014

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concernedresidentofbakerstreet:

blackcomicbookguy:

If you don’t have Iron Man cutting your blog in half then you’re automatically a member of hydra

#well shit i dont want to be a member of hydra 

concernedresidentofbakerstreet:

blackcomicbookguy:

If you don’t have Iron Man cutting your blog in half then you’re automatically a member of hydra

 

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24th July 2014

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dulect:

will you still love me when i’m no longer young and image

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24th July 2014

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tonydinozzos:

i was just showing my mom how to paste something into her text message on her phone and i was like “double tap in the the text box” “the text box” “the text box” and she was just pointing to random places on her screen that weren’t the text box and all i could think of was

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24th July 2014

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High School Musical, who says we have to let it go?

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